It took a flash of a secondary minute for me to notice an unfamiliar emotion which pierced.. oh no~ not pierced make that or take that as a softer phrase which i am unable to phrase through my emotional bank .. my heart and left its features for me to feel that happiness, that untouched moment and unknown twinkling (of eyes) on its reminiscense.
It was a Day not very long ago when I sat with a very dear friend of mine and as the talks unpacked into an unexpected flow of words which came unrestricted I saw that light .. which told me that yes it is a virtue to be a good listener , to make people feel they are being listened to and to let that feeling reach through the presence of soul and not mere physical existence of 2 healthy ears!! It takes patience and good amount of time to know and listen to somebody and one thing I have learned in the whole game ,You will be valued if you sit up and listen -respond-(suggest)-listen
A long time passed since I graduated in the field of being a good listener.. I have only been listening.. now nobody keeps quite and lets me do the talking and even if I start I end in getting my sentences cut for the unfinished thought my dear speaker had. Yet all this is interesting...
Even in the absence of a non-listener to you .. you find unknowingly a good friend. and it is all that matters.. you can always mould him/her to listen to you ! Now that seems a fabulous idea !!!!
Warning ! :: Keeping quite all the time can be dangerous to health as your friend might mistake you to be sleeping with open eyes!
P.S. Don't let others do the listening all the time.. sometimes it is good to let the tongue rest and ears vibrate !
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